May Bookworms

 ·  A Modest Proposal By Michele Ashman Bell
 ·  Trivia Questions
 ·  Getting to Know Michele Ashman Bell
 ·  Cooking with Michele
 ·  Discussion Questions

 




1. Can you name the objects that each girl put into the Butterfly Box?

2. Where does Lauryn get her inspiration for a lot of her designs?

3. What is Lauryn's stepsisters' boyfriend's name?

4. What does Lauryn eat to drown her sorrows when she breaks up with her boyfriend?

5. What is the name of the diner Jace takes Lauryn to on their first date?

 

Answers

 

1. Lauryn: Her pageant tiara and the movie Sabrina

Andrea: Hand sanitizer and Tootsie Rolls

Jocelyn: Boondoggle camp necklace and a small box

Emma: Graduation day photo and the bungee jumping shirt

Chloe: Rhinestone hair clippie and a snippet of Ava's hair

2. Lauryn loves the styles of the 50's so she draws a lot of inspiration from the glamour of old Hollywood and from stars like Audrey Hepburn and Doris Day.

3. Brody

4. Peanut Butter M&M's

5. The Frostop

 

 

 

 



One thing women love to eat, other than chocolate, is salad. Here is one of my favorite salad recipes of all time. WARNING: Be prepared: once you make it, you'll be asked to bring it to every family dinner and Church event you go to. It's that good!

SALAD de MAISON

Juice of 1 lemon

3 cloves garlic, crushed

1 tsp. salt

½ tsp. ground pepper

¾ c. oil

½ lb. bacon, cooked and diced

2 heads romaine lettuce

1 c. coarsely grated Swiss cheese

1/3 c. Parmesan cheese

Cherry tomatoes, halved

2/3 c. toasted, slivered almonds

1 c. croutons

Salt and pepper to taste

To make dressing, whip together lemon, crushed garlic, salt, pepper, and oil with wire whisk. Let stand for 2-3 hours. Mix bacon, lettuce, Swiss cheese, parmesan cheese, tomatoes, and almonds together. Just before serving, top with dressing and croutons. Toss, add salt and pepper to taste, and serve.

 



A Modest Proposal

By Michele Ashman Bell

 

All my life I had dreamed of changing the ordinary girl's world of fashion by designing modest formal gowns-ones that you'd actually want to wear. With my super-hero stitching I would save mothers and daughters from crying in dressing rooms over yet another too-skimpy prom dress.

So I moved to New York and am finally living that dream . . . well, almost. I am at one of the top fashion companies, and my designs are definitely modest-but I'm confined to outerwear only. There's only so much you can do with a trench coat.

I don't have my dream job, my family is a mess, and my love life stinks, but I have a feeling things are going to change.

I'm flying back to Utah for our Butterfly Girls reunion, which couldn't have come at a better time. We girls have been best friends since high school. We store cherished memories inside our butterfly box and only open it when we're together. Our lives are never the same after.

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Getting to Know Michele Ashman Bell

 

What inspired you to write A Modest Proposal?

The idea for this story was born about six years ago when my oldest daughter turned sixteen and we began looking for prom dresses. What started out as a fun mother/daughter excursion soon turned into a traumatic nightmare! Even here in Utah we had a horrible time trying to find a dress that was modest, affordable, and something she liked. Thank goodness I know how to sew a little because I suddenly had to learn how to do alterations and get creative with modifying immodest dresses. This has evolved recently as my daughter has done a few pageants. We have had to do some pretty serious modifications to help her maintain modesty without giving up style and fashion. I am convinced you can have both! So that's why I wrote this book. I wanted to make a statement about modesty not being old-fashioned and boring, but being fun, fashionable, and exciting.

Where do you get ideas for your books?

We all have access to story ideas in our everyday lives. But it's a writer who takes an idea and turns it into a story. I like to play the "What if" game with ideas. I'll take a simple concept and ask, "What if . . ." and then fill in the blank. Sometimes nothing comes out of it and the idea flops. Other times the idea grows and multiplies until it takes on a life of its own and a story is born. When I get stuck for ideas I call friends and family and ask, "What would you like to read about? What things do you feel are important issues we need to learn about?" If I can write about something we can all relate to, then we can all learn and grow together.

How do you juggle writing and family at the same time?

Juggle is the key word in that question. "Not very well," is the answer. I do my best, but being a mom is a full-time job, and the last thing I want my writing to do is infringe upon my time with my family. I make it a point to put my family and my Church callings first. As long as I keep my priorities straight, things seem to go fairly smoothly for me. I write two to three hours a day, Monday through Friday. I'm pretty stingy with this time and don't usually answer the phone or the door. It works out to only ten or twelve hours a week, but somehow I manage to make progress.

Is your writing based on your real- life experiences?

So far none of my stories have been autobiographical at all. There are always little snippets of my own experiences in some parts of the books, but nothing I could really claim as my own. I try to pull emotion from personal experiences, but many times I have to "borrow" emotion from someone who actually has been through what my characters go through. If I have a gift with writing, it's being able to empathize with and internalize other people's emotions, then infuse them into my stories.

Are your characters real people?

Sometimes my characters are loosely based on people I know. Mostly I take single characteristics from people rather than use them as a whole, although Rich, in my first series, was patterned a lot after my husband. On the first draft of the story I was told that Rich was just too perfect, too nice (just like my husband). I had to give Rich some flaws after that to enrich the story, but I like my husband just the way he is! I have to say, I do a lot of people-watching and studying. I love to observe mannerisms and figure out people's motivations, then I use those observations on my characters.

How much research goes into a book before you write it?

A lot of that depends on the story and how unfamiliar I am with what I'm writing about. It's always better when you can experience what your characters are doing, but that's not always possible. The best I can do is read, study, watch videos or movies, and interview people to get my information. Thank goodness for imaginations to help us "imagine" what it's like to get caught in a snowy blizzard and nearly die, or be sailing on a turbulent ocean during a life-threatening squall, or have a stalker kidnap you and try to bury you alive in the desert. These are things I'd rather not experience firsthand, but I can imagine what they would be like.

I usually do months of research-sometimes more-before I write a book. The research for my Vietnam books took a year. My favorite part of research is traveling to the places where the book is set, like Europe, the Oregon Coast, and Cancun. Research is sometimes my favorite part of writing.

Your books are "safe" to read. I feel good after I've read one of them. Is this something you try to do?

Absolutely. I wouldn't feel good about what I write if my eight-year-old couldn't pick it up and read it, or if my ninety-eight-year-old grandmother couldn't read it. My books will never contain anything inappropriate or against my beliefs. I don't feel it's necessary to write stories with garbage in them. I feel that cheapens the story. My books are about issues, emotions, and relationships. My goal is to give my readers hope and inspiration, to lift them and give them something of value.

What is something interesting or quirky about you that no one knows?

Aside from the fact that I'm pretty dull, I do have a few addictions I can admit to. I love, love, love cinnamon (we're talking bears, gum, candy, breads, cookies, rolls-anything cinnamon). I can't burn cinnamon-scented candles because that would make me crave cinnamon all day. I also am a ginormous Doris Day fan. My mom turned me onto Doris Day when I was a young girl, and I now have collected every movie she's ever made. My goal is to someday meet her. Anybody have any connections?

 

 

Discussion Questions

1. The book is about five women who met in high school and have maintained a bond throughout their adult lives. Most women seem to have some kind of support group or social group that they are a part of, whether it be with family or friends. What is it about women that draws us to having close-knit relationships with other women?

2. Why does the world view modesty as such a negative, old-fashioned quality?

3. What are some ways in which women, LDS women in particular, could help change this attitude and even change the market for immodest clothes?

4. In the book, Lauryn has a distant relationship with her mother, but she gets a chance to renew her relationship. What are some things that make a mother/daughter relationship successful? What can someone who has a complicated relationship with her mother or daughter do to strengthen that relationship?

5. The Butterfly Box contains sentimental objects from the Butterfly Girls' high school years. What do you wish you still had from high school (besides thinner thighs and a good metabolism)? Or, what object from high school would best represent you?

6. Lauryn gets a chance to take a new job that could possibly help her make her dream come true. The risk is high and she struggles to make the decision, trying to rely on Heavenly Father to help her know if it's right. After she changes jobs, she initially feels she might have made the wrong choice, but it turns out to be a blessing in disguise. How do we know if our answers are from Heavenly Father, and how do we find the courage to act on them even though sometimes they seem risky and scary? Also, are the rewards greater when the risk is higher?

7. After nearly twelve years apart, Lauryn is reunited with Jace, who was one of her best friends in high school. Do you feel that it is important to be friends first before marriage? How long should two people know each other before they should consider getting married?